beginning

I started this blog in the hope to improve our communication network and give both of us a chance to voice ourselves without any burden, at the same time really hear what each of us has to say without interuption. I hope this blog is the beginning of our 'new' life and hopefully our relationship will improve.Over the past few weeks, I feel our relationship is getting worst. We can't seems to communicate our thoughts correctly. Everytime he says some things, I will feel unhappy and think that he's trying to undermine me or criticise me. And when it's my turn, he thinks I'm telling him what to do or controlling him. Alot of misunderstanding often arise and communication breaks down. I'm starting to feel distant from him and I'm sure he does feel unhappy too.With his busy schedule, he doesn't like to be bother by little things. On the other hand, being a woman, I sometimes keep asking him little things. I don't if it's me or most girls, the characteristics I have, he doesn't like and keep saying that's what typical singaporean girls are like. I don't think I'm a typical singaporean girl. Anyway, what is a typical singaporean girl like?He said always wants the best but not willing to give. I may be stingy and calculative at times, but I never said I'm not willing to give. So far, whatever he asked, I've tried my best to do it. I tried not to complain, but sometimes my little comments, he treats them as complains saying that a guy must satisfy. Should I just keep my mouth shut and do things myself? Sometimes I get confused and tired trying to figure out what to do. It doesn't seems so hard, but I just can't seems to do what he wants. It's so discouraging at times.Of course, there are times when we are happy with each other's company, but that's only like 14% of the time we spent. 14%? how I get this? We seems to have only 1 day happy with each other - fri night and sat morning - so 1/7*100%.Okie. let's try to be positive and try other ways to improve our relationship, starting with this blog. Can?